Please, stop watching "Reality" television shows, at least the ones like "the Bachelor" and "Joe Millionaire." They are among the highest rated shows on television, and all they do is encourage us to treat one another as objects, for our use. They positively do harm, by continuing the process of the destruction of dignity. OF COURSE such things have always gone on, but never before in history have 17 million people been treated to them, all at one time.